Kaffy, a well-known dancer and choreographer from Nigeria, has urged parents to create boundaries with adults and teach their kids about personal space.
She reportedly stated in a video on her Instagram page that kids should know that it’s acceptable to decline unwelcome physical touch, especially from well-known family members or caregivers.
The mother of two revealed that as a child, she was subjected to unwanted behavior by a close friend.
Such occurrences might occur even when adults are not aware of them, she clarified.
According to her, those who injure children frequently don’t appear to be overt dangers; instead, they could seem kind or supportive.
She cautioned parents against placing too much faith in people who are close to their kids, such as drivers, uncles, aunts, and nannies.
Kaffy asserts that children’s mental health may be safeguarded and difficult circumstances can be avoided with clear limits and instruction.
Additionally, the choreographer cautioned against making physical affectionate remarks about children’s body without their permission.
She advocated for the creation of secure spaces where kids can freely express their discomfort and feel valued.
“It happened right in front of people who trusted the person,” she stated. I had no idea what was going on at that age. However, I sensed that something was off.
Many of them seem to be concerned. They can be the ones who want to spend time with or assist the child all the time. Parents must pay attention and establish boundaries because of this.
“Parents should be wary of their favorite drivers, nannies, uncles, and aunts. There must be limits. Many children encounter difficult circumstances from those in their immediate vicinity.
